Let’s find out how conscious relationships thrive these days. Find out how these work in our daily lives.
How do we “beat the odds” in a time where separation and divorce are talked about more than successful partnerships? How did this happen? How did we get to this point?
Relationships are shifting. People are busy. And there is not enough time to invest in one another with how busy our schedules have become. We live in a society where it is almost expected that we overextend ourselves, whether it be going to the office early and staying late or having our kids in more activities than time allows for.
Remember when there were no cell phones to endlessly scroll on at night before bed? No internet to surf? When did we have to watch commercials on TV? These used to be some of the times when we would connect and check in with each other.
We’ve lost the art of connection.
Doing relationship work is hard, and taking the time to invest in working through issues takes time and dedication. It’s not an easy road, and this is often when couples decide to either separate instead of doing the hard work or stay together and live miserably ever after.
A conscious relationship is when we treat others with respect, are fully present for the other person, communicate in a respectful manner, and are fully open and honest with our partner.
Want to know how to keep that connection and the conscious aspect alive in your partnership? Here are four tips to do just that:
1. Communication is Key for Conscious Relationships
We often confuse communication with talking or having a conversation. Communication is about connecting and hearing what your partner is saying. It’s about active listening and appropriate dialogue. The next time you talk with one another, try this: after each of you is finished speaking, repeat all of the points you each touched on to see how good your active listening skills are.
Although love is an obvious key element in a relationship, without trust, a relationship is unable to grow. Having a strong, solid trust in your partner is what will help you survive the storms. If there is no trust, ask yourself: Was there ever trust to begin with? If there was, how was it lost? Work through this reason with one another in an active listening, respectful way.
3. Honesty is Essential for Conscious Relationships to Work
Honesty is a way of life, not just a behaviour. When we have full faith in our partner, it allows for the freedom we need to be at ease and lets our relationships move forward in the healthiest way. Can you be honest with your partner? If not, why?
4. Make Conscious Relationships Survive Daily with Respect
Respect in a relationship is not about controlling the other person; it is about allowing you and your partner to be yourselves and be fully accepted for who you are. Everyone deserves equal respect, and if you are not giving it or receiving it, why is that?
Taking a deeper dive into some of these questions and getting real with yourself and your partner can spark discussions deeper than just your busy day, the weather, or what bills need to get paid.
Having deep, meaningful discussions about things that are bothering us is a way to clear the air, reconnect, and strengthen our relational skills and bonds with one another.
Original article by Meg Casten.
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